Two months in. The Bay Area is kicking my ass a little. Here's what I've learned.
I debated posting this but figured if I'm going to be part of this community I should actually contribute something real and not just lurk and collect wisdom. So here goes. ?
I've been searching for just over two months. Preschools, Spas, home services. Mostly the Bay Area. I came in thinking I had a decent process. And maybe I do. But the market has been faster and more expensive than I expected.
*The market is brutal for quality deals*
Almost every deal I've gotten excited about has ended up in multiple offers. Every single one. If a business has clean financials and doesn't require the owner to be there 80 hours a week holding it together — there are buyers on it. Nothing good sits around waiting for you.
*The deal that I lost yesterday*
Asking ~$1.3M. I went through the financials, convinced myself the SDE was lower than represented (which i am pretty sure it is), adjusted my offer down, and lost by $100K with no counter. The broker had a clean process, and wasn't doing multiple rounds. That was it.
Honestly — I would have paid the extra $100K. I liked the business. I was so in my head about not overpaying that I lost sight of the competition. The smarter play was probably to offer closer to ask and protect myself through diligence contingencies rather than cutting the number upfront. I know that now.
*The stuff that caught me completely off guard*
--- Some brokers aren't taking LOIs anymore — they want a full purchase agreement from day one
--- Some are expecting 3-5% wired within 3 days of signing. Three days. My stomach dropped the first time I saw that
--- Those listings sitting active for the last couple months? Brokers are sometimes intentionally keeping them open to build a buyer pool before setting a deadline and running a structured offer process. Looks passive. Very much not.
So my actual question to this community:
--- Is off-market the only real answer here? Is that just where everyone eventually lands?
--- And has anyone used SMB Deal Hunters for sourcing? Worth it or noise?
Would love to hear from people who've cracked this — or even just someone else who's in the weeds and wants to commiserate. 👇