My wife and I are gearing up to start a self-funded search in the New Year.  Does anyone have suggestions on managing the search process as a couple, both to keep our marriage healthy as well as to make the best impression with sellers/intermediaries?  Also, we'd appreciate help finding practical guides for self-funded searchers to get off the ground (tools, best practices, sample outreach letters, etc).  Thanks in advance, we've been overwhelmed with the generosity of the search community!